A memory tree for funerals is a popular idea. Guests can memorialize the deceased by hanging tags with their memories of the person who has died on a real or artificial tree. Choose from several types of trees and tag designs to personalize a special tribute to the deceased.
Choosing a Memory Tree for Funerals
- You can find artificial trees designed for this type of memorial tree.
- If you don't want to splurge an artificial tree, you can always harvest a small tree or cut a branch from a bigger tree.
- If the funeral isn't during a season when the trees have no leaves, you can remove the leaves.
- You can also use a live tree that will later be planted as a memorial tribute.
Painting Your Memory Tree
You may wish to leave your tree natural. However, some people prefer to paint the tree a specific color. One color choice for a twig tree might be the deceased's favorite color. The choice is strictly up to those planning the funeral.
Vase or Stand for Memory Tree
Use a standard florist plant container or a vase for your memory tree. It's easy to secure the branch or tree to the bottom of the container or vase with a dab of liquid nail or another strong adhesive. Decorate the container/vase with metallic florist paper, wrapping paper, or other type of decoration. Fill a vase with florist beads or other fillers.
Miniature String Lights
You can add miniature string lights or wired fairy LED light strings to your tree. Clear lights provide an angelic or heavenly feel to the memory tree decorations.
Tags for a Funeral Memory Tree
At the funeral, place a real or artificial tree in the funeral reception hall with a basket of blank tags and pens. Add a sign inviting people to write their favorite memories of the deceased on the tags and hang them on the tree. Print and cut blank tags out of cardstock with a hole punched and a string through the hole to hang it. Instead of using a simple rectangle tag, you can make your funeral memorial tree extra special with tag shapes that represent some part of the decease's life. Alternatively, use a traditional tag shape with printed motifs, such as one that represents their occupation, hobby, religion, or love of nature.
You don't need to use a traditional "tag" shape. Instead, consider cutting your tags into different shapes.
- Heart-shaped memory tags are especially touching for the funeral of a child.
- Round memory tree tags are often a favorite for a Christmas season funeral.
- Stars are a popular shape to represent the heavenly stars.
You can also decorate the tag with an occupation motif or use a shape representing their occupation.
- Use book shapes for a writer, librarian, professor, or any book lover.
- Chef hat or spoon shape is a nice touch for a deceased chef or cook.
- Garden tool shapes are good choices for a farmer, grower, or gardener.
- Create musical instruments for a musician.
- A science flask shape is a good choice for someone who worked in the sciences.
If the person who has died was religious, then religious symbols or themes might be appropriate.
- Angel shaped memory tags are a touching tribute for a deceased adult or child.
- Cross is the shape often chosen for a Christian funeral.
- Dove shaped tags represent peace and are a favorite to present a comforting decorated tree.
- Prayer hands are an appropriate shape for a funeral memory tree.
- You can choose Star of David shapes for a Jewish funeral.
For those who loved the great outdoors, nature symbols and shapes offer a touching tribute.
- Butterflies are always an uplifting symbol.
- Flower shapes offer pretty tags for a funeral memory tree.
- Leaf shapes can be a nice seasonal choice for a fall funeral.
Printable Funeral Memory Tree Tags
You can use these PDF printable memory tree funeral tags as well. Click on the image to download and then print it. If you need help with the printables, check out this Adobe Guide.
You can also print a series of favorite photos of the deceased for the memory tree tags. Guests can write their message on the back of the card tag photo. You may prefer a scenic photo for the photo tag, such as the deceased's favorite vacation spot.
Slate Tags for Funeral Memory Tree Ideas
You may decide to use slate tags for your funeral memory tree. Provide permanent white paint pen markers or another color. Attach with sturdy split wire rings or a strong ribbon, and make sure you choose a tree with strong branches to bear the additional weight of the slate. A slate tag is ideal for a teacher or instructor funeral.
Memory Tree Tag Colors
You can further personalize your memory tree tags by choosing a color other than the typical craft paper brown or poster board white. Keep in mind that messages will be written using black or blue ink unless you provide a different ink color for mourners to use.
|White||Purity, peace, god|
|Blue||Peace, loyalty, trust, honor|
|Green||Nature, healing, calmness|
|Pink||Nurturing, femininity, love|
|Purple||Power, elegance, royalty|
|Red||Passion, warmth, power|
Hanging Ribbons and Cords
You can use any number of ribbons or cords for hangers. You'll need to decide on the type of hanger and the color to use.
Messages to Share on Funeral Memory Tree Tags
If you know a funeral you're going to attend will have a memory tree, take some time before the funeral to come up with the message you wish to write on your memory tag for the tree. Remember you'll have limited space, and you want your handwriting to be legible so the family will have a nice keepsake of your final thought about their loved one.
- Share a short memory of the deceased.
- Write a comforting funeral quote.
- Express your love for the family and the deceased.
Sign Your Memory Tree Tag
Be sure to sign your name. Some people prefer to sign their name on the back of the tag, so it is opposite the side of their message. This allows the message to stand out when they hang their tag.
Exploring a Few Simple Memory Tree Ideas
A memory tree is one way you can personalize a funeral and memorialize someone who has died. Family and friends will appreciate the opportunity to make a last prayer, wish, or comment for the deceased that the family can keep.