Memorial Tributes to Mother
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Losing a parent can be traumatic at any age, but memorial tributes to mother can ensure that a parent who is gone doesn’t need to be forgotten. Many times children who have lost their parents may feel like orphans, but touching tributes to mothers can honor the memories of special women in meaningful ways.
Who Gives the Tribute
Anyone can give a tribute for a parent dying, but most often it is the children who feel the loss most strongly and want to offer a memorial. Whether the children are young or old, the loss of a parent can be devastating, and remembering a mother in a meaningful and symbolic way can be a first step toward overcoming that grief.
Memorial gifts can be especially significant for younger children and grandchildren who never have the chance to get to know their mothers and grandmothers personally. By choosing nostalgic remembrance gifts, mothers can be honored even when they’re no longer around to honor in person.
Anyone who has seen a parent’s loving care may also wish to honor their passing. Neighbors, siblings, spouses and friends can also offer memorial tribute to mothers who have passed away, whether as their own way of saying good-bye or to help the family share their grief and celebrate their loved one’s life.
Tribute Timing
A memorial tribute may be offered at any time, but popular dates for remembrance include:
- Birthdays, either of the deceased parent or the children they’ve left behind
- Mother’s Day
- Wedding anniversaries
- Holidays
- Anniversaries of their death
Types of Memorial Tributes to Mother
There are many ways to offer tribute to mothers who have passed away. In addition to lovely funerals, poems in memory of Mom, and appropriate death rituals for different cultures, personal and sentimental options can often be the most meaningful.
Flowers
A bouquet of flowers lovingly placed in a cemetery is a traditional way to remember a deceased mother. To make this gift even more meaningful, choose flowers that were her favorites or pick flowers from a garden she diligently pruned and weeded. Choosing blooms in her favorite color are another option, or select a memorial bouquet with “Mom” or “Mother” displayed on a ribbon or in a careful arrangement of contrasting colored flowers. Another option is to plant a living tree, shrub, or flowering bush near the gravesite in her memory for a gift that will grow and blossom even as her love has nurtured those around her.
Meals
Mom’s home cooking is a treasured memory for every son or daughter, and recreating her best recipes is a delicious way to honor and remember an absent mother. If the meal or dessert cannot be recreated – some recipes just aren’t the same without a mother’s secret ingredients – then a dinner at her favorite restaurant is a pleasant way to honor her memory and her fine taste in cuisine.
Another option is to donate a meal or a selection of nonperishable foods to local shelters, food banks, and charities so the mother’s love and nourishment can be spread to others.
Hobbies
Was she a crafter? Did she love to ride horses? Was her idea of a perfect afternoon one spent in the garden? To remember a mother without needing to mourn, enjoy her presence by enjoying her favorite activities. Teaching the next generation those activities is another way to ensure that younger children get a chance to know their mothers and grandmothers in absentia, and the skills and hobbies they acquire will keep her memory alive for years.
Charities
A mother donates her time, skills, patience, and love with unending generosity, and there is no better way to honor her devotion than by reciprocating it. Donating to her favorite charity or to an organization or charitable cause she supported will help carry on her legacy. For even more impact, donate time as a willing volunteer rather than simply writing a check.
Movies
Remember your mother fondly by enjoying her favorite movies. Whether they are retro flicks or modern blockbusters, she would appreciate watching her favorites again and again, and you can share her love for that fine entertainment with a bowl of popcorn and an empty seat on the couch to be sure her spirit is enjoying the show.
Memories
As the years pass, one’s memory of a departed mother may grow dim, and the perfect way to honor her is by rejoicing in her memory. Share photo albums, favorite anecdotes, and sentimental keepsakes with siblings and children to let everyone learn more about this special woman and the special love she shared with you.
Parenting
There is no better way to honor a mother’s memory than by being a good son or daughter and living the life she always wanted you to have, even if you didn’t always see things eye to eye. Practicing good parenting skills will also keep her memories vibrant as you learn the way she was a mother to you was the perfect way for a mother to be. So eat your vegetables, wash behind your ears, and pick up your room to make her proud.
A Final Note
When a parent dies, the children left behind can feel bereft of their wisdom, love and guidance. There are many memorial tributes to Mother, however, that will keep her alive in the hearts of those whose lives she touched.
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