Christian Grief Counseling

Woman receiving Christian grief counseling

Losing a loved one can be devastating. To help you with the emotional pain that naturally occurs from an event such as this one, seek the services of a Christian grief counselor. You may find the comfort you've been yearning for since you received word of your friend or family member's passing.

Christian Versus Non-Christian Based Grief Counseling

Christian and non-Christian based grief counseling can help people deal with the emotional pain of a loved one's death, but they are different in what they focus on during counseling sessions. Christian grief counseling is the integration of faith along with support and guidance to move you through the grief process. God's word is important to many people, and can greatly help them come to terms with death. With secular counseling, spirituality and God are not a central theme in counseling. While many counselors are comfortable discussing God, even in secular grief counseling, the sessions are not dedicated to the exploration of how spirituality helps in the mourning process.

How Christian Based Grief Counseling Helps

As you mourn your loved one's death, a Christian counselor will help you understand that your loved one is in heaven, without pain and suffering.

Understanding What Happens After Death

The goal of the counselor is to help you realize that this life event isn't a turn for the worse, but for the better in that now the person is in the loving arms of the Heavenly Father. This enlightenment serves to bring you peace and acceptance.

Living a Godly Life

Once you find comfort in where your loved one has gone, the grief counselor will work with you to help you move on with your life in the most Christian way, so that you too can someday join your loved one in Heaven. You'll hear what God would like from you now that your loved one is gone. Along with your counselor you will devise a plan on how you will make the most of your time living. This may be spreading the word of God, helping others who are in need, or donating to charity.

Moving On

The end of your therapy happens when you feel that you can stand on your own two feet without the support and guidance of the counselor. You'll feel at peace with your loved one's death and empowered to proceed with your life in the glory of God.

Finding Christian Counseling

It can be difficult to find a qualified Christian grief counselor. The following are ideas on how you can find someone who will be able to counsel you according to your faith:

Your Pastor

Most pastors have at least a master's degree in some human services field such as psychology or counseling. While a degree in counseling isn't absolutely necessary, it is important to some people. When seeking grief counseling from a pastor, you will be able to discuss your thoughts and feelings, while asking specific questions about the meaning of life and death. A pastor is able to give you detailed explanations because he is highly educated on the teachings of God and the Bible.

Most pastors reserve time outside of church hours for counseling. Call your church and ask about these times. If you are in crisis, most pastors will meet with you as soon as possible. You can also ask your pastor about other resources for faith-based grief counseling.

Counseling Centers

Search the Internet or yellow pages for counseling centers in your area. You may be able to find Christian counseling centers or have to call around in search of a center that provides faith-based counseling. By using a counselor from an agency, you'll receive someone who has specialized training in grief counseling. The only downside is that the counselor may not have as many answers to your specific questions unless he/she has extensively researched the faith. Of course, many counselors who don't know the answer to clients' questions will reach out to a pastor or other religious resources to find the information you need to help with your therapy.

The Internet

Many sites have grief counselors waiting to chat with you online or on the phone. If you feel more comfortable talking about your loved one's death in the privacy of your home, this may be perfect for you. Usually, credible websites will have specific information about the counselor's degrees and certifications, and with faith-based counseling, the site should include information about the counselor's beliefs so you can make a determination if the counselor is best suited for your therapy.

Hospice Counseling

If your loved one was in hospice, the hospice center usually provides free counseling. Whether it's Christian-based depends on the type of hospice your loved one was in.

Christian Grief Counseling Books

Books having to do with Christian-based grief counseling can help you understand the process and give you hope for peace.

Comprehensive Guide

Christian Counseling: A Comprehensive Guide explains how counselors perform Christian counseling for many different issues. You'll learn not only how they approach grief, but the ways they help people heal from many life stressors.

Guide to Crisis and Trauma Counseling

The Complete Guide to Crisis and Trauma Counseling is used by Pastors and other Christian counselors wanting to find new ways to help people dealing with crises. It's Biblical in nature, which makes it the perfect depiction of how a Christian-based counselor would run a counseling session.

Helping Those in Grief

Helping Those in Grief: A Guide to Help You Care for Others is another book that many counselors use to help them bring in God's word to their grief counseling sessions. It identifies passages from the Bible that can help mourners understand life, death, and moving on after a loved one has died.

Time and Faith Heal Wounds

With faith-based counseling, many times people become discouraged because they don't receive the help they need right away. The feelings you are dealing with are deep and it may take some time to bring them to the surface so you can finally feel the power of faith in helping you overcome this devastation. Understand that it's normal to feel angry, even at God, but with time, your anger will subside and you will soon find peace in this inevitable life event and move on with life with a new perspective and stronger faith.

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Christian Grief Counseling