Bible Verse Sympathy

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When a loved one has died, many find comfort from Bible verse sympathy.

The Bible is a source of comfort for many in sorrow.

Comfort After Losing a Loved One

Sympathy is important to offer when someone you know has lost a loved one to death. Perhaps you have had a parent, spouse or sibling die, and remember what it felt like when others were kind and understanding. You think back to your raw emotions you had immediately after the death, and recall what the helpful sympathy sayings that were said or written to you were. You want to offer the same comfort you were given.

What to Choose

Make sure that when you decide to use Bible verse sympathy, you do not offend anyone. If your friend who has just had a death in her family is a Christian or has a strong belief in God, placing sincere and healing verses from the Holy Bible will be well-received. However, if the griever is an atheist or agnostic, chances are, she will not want a card with quotes from the Bible.

Select verses that speak of the following:

  • Hope
  • God's love
  • Peace
  • Life eternal
  • Comfort
  • God's provision
  • God's care
  • Sorrow
  • Reassurance
  • Heaven
  • God's strength
  • God's compassion

Consider Bible Verse Sympathy

Consider some of these verses to write in a card to your bereaved friend or family member:

  • From Psalm 9:9

The LORD is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble.

  • From Psalm 34:18

The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit

  • From Psalm 48:14

For this God is our God for ever and ever; he will be our guide even to the end.

  • From Isaiah 54:10

"Though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed, yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken nor my covenant of peace be removed," says the LORD, who has compassion on you.

  • From Matthew 5:4

Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.

  • From Revelation 21:4

He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.

Writing Heartfelt Sympathy

A blank card with a drawing or picture of a serene scene such as a sunset or mountain at dusk is appropriate for using to write your heartfelt sentiments. Choose a card you think your friend would like. If you aren't sure, find a card that you like. Spend some time selecting the Bible verse you want to include in the message of your card. Add a personal note as well. Let your family member or friend know that you are sorry that she has had to experience the death of a close loved one.

What Not to Do

Never, ever preach to your friend at this time of great sorrow. Offer encouragement and genuine concern. Do not tell her what she should not or should do. Be gentle as you would want others to be toward you at a time of immense grief.

Keep in Mind

While the words from the Bible can be soothing to many, make sure you also show your bereaved friend comfort in other ways. Attend the funeral or memorial service, if you can. Offer to take her out to dinner or cook her a meal. Listen to her as she remembers her loved one. Cry with her and show sincere empathy. As time passes, go to the cemetery with her and bring along a lovely bouquet of fresh flowers. Give to the memorial fund, if there is one. Your continual support of your friend will be the best comfort for her. Let her take her time in her grief. Your patience with her is a beautiful gift.

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